Sensual Intimacy Coaching designed for your fulfilment

Are you disappointed or frustrated with your sex or love life? Do you struggle to connect with your body or your partner? Is it difficult to communicate what you want, let alone know what you want when it comes to intimacy?

Don’t worry you’re not alone. Around half of the population are unhappy with their sex lives, even though 63% believe that their overall quality of life would improve if their sex lives improved.

It’s true! Studies show that a healthy relationship with sex can benefit our overall well-being.

What if I told you that you could create more fulfilling intimacy, more profound pleasure, more authentic sexuality, and more passionate relationships? What if I told you that your desires could flourish through using simple and effective strategies? Would you believe me?

Working with Oli

I’ve created a process that brings together a sexual re-education and somatic embodiment, to will help you gain a deeper insight around your situation. Through talking and practicing in our 1:1 sessions, together we will:

  • unlearn patterns that are holding you back;

  • relearn new ways of thinking about intimacy;

  • nourish with self-pleasure tools and techniques;

  • connect you to confidently communicate with others.

Sensual Intimacy Coaching

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Sensual Intimacy Coaching 〰️

Why Sensual Intimacy Coaching?

My Sensual Intimacy Coaching is designed to guide people who are struggling with intimacy, to help them create a more fulfilling sex and love lives. With the absence of adequate and inclusive sex and relationship education — we are often expected to just know what we want, how we want it, and how to communicate that.

Why sensual intimacy? Because I believe that sex and relationships are often starved of their most essential components: a connection to our pleasurable senses and a deeper closeness with each other.

Through the lens of queer theory and sensual embodiment, I offer a unique reframing of what sex and relationships are, and could be for you.

Want To Know My Story?

I went through years of battling anxiety, being called “too sensitive,” going through numbness and disconnect, being frustrated with myself, my body, and my relationships. What I didn’t realise was the amount of unresolved shame, fear, and attachment patterns that I was carrying — along with a real lack of knowledge around my pleasure anatomy, embodied consent, healthy communication. There was so much holding me back from living my most authentic sexual self.

Thankfully, with incredible learnings and guidance from incredible teachers, I built up my skill set — including cognitive strategies and somatic embodiment techniques — that have helped me transform my relationships with myself and with others. The proof really is in the pudding.

And I am so excited to be able to share all of this wisdom with you!

Accreditation

Since 2021, I have undertaken various trainings to inform my coaching practice:

  • Sex, Love, & Relationships Coaching Foundations with Andrea Balboni of Lush Coaching,

  • Creating Conscious Love Certificate; Reclaiming Pleasure: Embodied Joy in Trauma Recovery & Social Change Certificate; Somatic Attachment Therapy 60 Hours Training from The Embody Lab,

  • Mental & Emotional Mastery: Mental Health Mentorship; Relationship Mastery Training with Ty Hicks,

  • Delivering Inclusive Relationship and Sex Education Trainning with Split Banana,

  • Trauma-Informed Practice: A Course For Frontline Workers with AVA Training,

  • Trans Competency Training at Trans Feminism International with Kes Otter Lieffe.

Alongside these trainings, I have also undergone my own healing journey in regards to sex, pleasure, and my sexuality, and will continue to add to my practice as I value growth and contribution highly.

Want to know more about how my Sensual Intimacy Coaching works? Book yourself in for a free 15 mins introductory call to see if or how I can help.

Academia

  • History BA at the University of Sussex, specialising in the History of Sexuality

  • The Complexity of Prostitution Module, at the University of Amsterdam

  • Sexual Dissidence MA specialising in Queer Theory and Intersectional Feminism at the University of Sussex

  • London Free School of Applied Critical and Feminist Theory at the University of London

Since graduating from Academia in 2017, I have over half a decade working in the Sex Tech industry as a Writer, Researcher, Content Creator, Social Media Manager, and Commissioning Editor for various sex-positive companies. Utilising my skills to educate and inform people using science-backed research, all the while queering the conversation around sex and intimacy.

I also offer Erotic and Intimacy Consulting services for creative projects within the film and music industry.

Discover Your Sensuality

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Discover Your Sensuality 〰️

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Lush Coaching

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Lush Coaching 〰️

Sex, Love + Relationships

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Sex, Love + Relationships 〰️

Creating Conscious Love; Reclaiming Pleasure: Embodied Joy in Trauma Recovery & Social Change; Somatic Attachment Therapy

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Creating Conscious Love; Reclaiming Pleasure: Embodied Joy in Trauma Recovery & Social Change; Somatic Attachment Therapy 〰️

Delivering Inclusive Relationship and Sex Education

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Delivering Inclusive Relationship and Sex Education 〰️

Sexual Dissidence; Queer Theory; Intersectional Feminism; Gender Studies

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Sexual Dissidence; Queer Theory; Intersectional Feminism; Gender Studies 〰️

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